Myopia: What to do When Your Child is Diagnosed With Nearsightedness

Today was supposed to be a normal, happy day for Z and me. I had everything planned down to the T: routine eye exam for his school requirements, pay bills and probably play in the new Powerville Fun House at SM San Mateo. Unfortunately, I didn't count on my son being diagnosed with myopia in the mix.

What is Myopia?

Also known as "nearsightedness," myopia is a vision problem where people are able to see close objects clearly but not objects from far away. Instead, people with myopia will see these objects as blurry or unclear, according to the American Optometric Association.

What is Childhood Myopia?

As Z is only four years old, he was diagnosed with "childhood myopia." Based from the Singapore National Eye Centre, this eye problem begins in a form of short-sightedness and is often seen in kids who complain about seeing objects clearly from a distance.

What are the Causes & Symptoms?

Unfortunately, childhood myopia can be caused by genetic and outside factors. Children who have myopic parents and those who stay indoors most of the time at more at risk.

Symptoms vary from difficulty in seeing the white-board, television, tilting their head or narrowing their eyes when trying to look at things clearly, and complaining about blurred vision.

Is Childhood Myopia Preventable?

The best way to prevent myopia or to at least slow the progression is to ensure that the child practices good eye care habits. According to SNEC, it is best to make the child rest in between reading or playing to let their eyes breathe. Kids are also encouraged to play outdoors more rather than staying indoors.

As for Z, I didn't see any of these symptoms although I think it will not be helped as I am myopic myself. I was diagnosed of nearsightedness when I was in fourth grade. It was a late diagnosis hence I am still suffering from this eye problem until now. I am so sorry Z for passing this unto you.

The good thing is we were able to see a good pediatric ophthalmologist at the Novagen Eye Center SM San Mateo branch. His name is Dr. Angel Ancheta and here is his contact details:

He advised us to go to Ideal Vision to have Z's corrective glasses made and told me to get an ordinary pair of lens because a child's eye grade often change quicker than an adult. So, we bought the regular lens at Php 400.00 and got a Quiksilver frame from Php 2,000.00. We added a lace for Php 50.00 to make it easier for Z to adjust to his new glasses.

My heart is breaking because I know how difficult it is to have glasses at an early stage. I do hope it will not hinder him to enjoy outdoor activities and any school activities. Looking at him now, I can't help but feel scared for him because he looks so frail.

I should stop fearing the unknown because I know Z is different from me. Besides, I was able to play for our High School's varsity team as a setter in my glasses. I know Z will adjust perfectly; he's stronger than my fears.

What to do as a Mother?

I think it is best to act as normal as possible, as if nothing has changed. You see, if I make it a big deal, Z might get shy and awkward and he might not be the same bubbly kid I know. In other words, don't make it a big deal (even though it feels like it is).

My son is a sensitive kid and he can feel when I am stressed or anxious. If I show him that I am fearful for him or if I start treating him differently, he might stop believing in himself altogether. He's still the same Z, with or without glasses.

Besides, he totally looks like Harry Potter now. LOL.

I know you'll do great, Z. We can go through this. I am just happy that there are now high-tech medical interventions to help us go through childhood myopia. I love you, Z.